Declutter Like a Pro:

Have you ever stepped into a home where every closet, cupboard, and drawer was packed “just in case” something might be needed someday? My mother’s home was exactly that. Though it was neat and organized, it was overflowing with things she had kept for years. When she moved into a nursing home, I was left with the overwhelming task of sorting through it all. With my brother in a wheelchair and my family busy with work, I spent months driving eight hours each way, sorting, packing, and making endless decisions. It was exhausting.

That experience changed me. I vowed I wouldn’t leave my children with the same burden. I started purging my home, determined to simplify my life. The result? A sense of relief I never expected. I didn’t get rid of everything—memories still matter—but I let go of the excess. Donating to a local rescue mission made it even more rewarding, knowing my unused items could help others.

Want to declutter but don’t know where to start? Follow these three simple steps:

Step 1: Prepare Your Sorting Tools

Grab two sturdy boxes and a garbage bag. Label one box “Donate” and the other “Hold for Six Months.” The bag is for trash—because, let’s face it, some things just need to go.

Step 2: The 80/20 Rule—What Do You Really Use?

Go item by item and ask yourself:

• Have I used this in the past year?
• Will I use it in the next year?

Most people use only 20% of what they own regularly—so why keep the extra 80%? If you’re struggling with clothes, try this trick: Turn all your hangers backward. After wearing something, return it the right way. In a year, whatever is still backward goes!

Step 3: Make a Decision and Let Go

For each item, decide:

• Keep (if used and needed)
• Donate (if unused but in good condition)
• Trash (if broken or unusable)
• Hold for Six Months (if uncertain—then revisit it later)

Worried you’ll need something later? You have options:

1. Use a substitute. There’s always another way to get the job done.
2. Borrow it. Family, friends, or neighbors might have what you need.
3. Replace it. If the need ever arises (and chances are, it won’t), you can buy another.

Decluttering isn’t just about organizing—it’s about creating a peaceful, stress-free home. The less you have, the less you have to manage. I’ve learned that less stuff means more freedom.

Have you tackled a decluttering project? Share your best tips in the comments!